Hoog-contextuelen als helpers/en: verschil tussen versies
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The book ''[https://www.bol.com/be/nl/f/stop-caretaking-the-borderline-or-narcissist/9200000007711633 Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist]'' (Margalis Fjelstad) describes this mechanism: | The book ''[https://www.bol.com/be/nl/f/stop-caretaking-the-borderline-or-narcissist/9200000007711633 Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist]'' (Margalis Fjelstad) describes this mechanism: | ||
* The high-contextual partner becomes a permanent '' | * The high-contextual partner becomes a permanent ''caregiver'' (caretaker) who continually fills the emotional and contextual gaps of the other. | ||
* As a result, the helper loses his/her own boundaries, identity, and energy. | * As a result, the helper loses his/her own boundaries, identity, and energy. | ||
* A vicious circle of ''' | * A vicious circle of '''victim–aggressor–rescuer''' (the drama triangle) develops. | ||
* The relationship becomes unstable, emotionally exhausting, and toxic. | * The relationship becomes unstable, emotionally exhausting, and toxic. | ||