Translations:Hoog-contextuelen als helpers/12/en
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The book Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist (Margalis Fjelstad) describes this mechanism:
- The high-contextual partner becomes a permanent caretaker who continually fills the emotional and contextual gaps of the other.
- As a result, the helper loses his/her own boundaries, identity, and energy.
- A vicious circle of victim–persecutor–rescuer (the drama triangle) develops.
- The relationship becomes unstable, emotionally exhausting, and toxic.