Empathy and thinking styles

See Lexicon#Empathy for the general definition and forms of empathy.

Low-contextual thinking

Limited cognitive empathy → difficulty correctly assessing the other person's situation and intentions.
Emotional reactions are therefore less attuned and often reflexive → more of "sympathy" than full-fledged empathy.
Vulnerability: misunderstandings more quickly, emotional escalations, fragile basic trust.

Strong cognitive empathy → can take perspective and frame the other person's emotions.
Emotional empathy is better attuned to the context → response feels appropriate and supportive for the other person.
Vulnerability: overload due to too much change of perspective, tendency to overresponsibility.

Borderline – strong emotional empathy without sufficient cognitive integration → emotions become overwhelming.
Narcissism – often cognitive empathy (seeing what the other person is thinking), but lack of emotional empathy → instrumental use of information.

Casus

Partner A (high-contextual) notices that Partner B is tired and decides to arrange dinner on her own.

Partner B (low-contextual) interprets this as: "he doesn't want to eat together" and feels rejected.

The difference in empathy style leads to a misunderstanding, while the intention was caring.